INSECURE ABOUT YOURSELF?

Insecure about yourself?

      

 

 

INSECURE ABOUT YOURSELF?

 

 

Are you insecure about yourself ?

 

Do people make fun of your insecurities ?

 

How to overcome your insecurities ?

 

What is Insecurity ?

Insecurity is the feeling of lack of confidence about one’s own self . It is the state of mind in which we have a very low self-esteem .

 

How does a person become insecure ?

A person becomes insecure of himself / herself due to constant low evaluation of themselves . This low evaluation hence causes one to lose any confidence which was previously built and then lose any self-respect causing further depression.

 

What are the side effects of insecurity ?

Insecurity creates a dent in your personal relationships just like worms damage clothes . It slowly  grows inside you deteriorating your confidence . Insecurity causes lack of trust towards people surrounding you . Sometimes it makes you feel as if people are only talking about you .

 

Are you insecure about yourself ?

Insecurities as discussed stem through our low confidence . Low confidence can be due to lack of respect of ourselves . We all are distinct due to our age, location, language etc . Some of us are fat , some of us are small , some of us are too tall , some fail to understand how to converse , some stammer , some have a squint etc . These small things can be the reasons why we suddenly start retreating into our shell and act insecure about ourselves.

 

Do people make fun of your insecurities ?

Yes, People love to make fun of your insecurities .  People love to put salt on your injuries . They need something to talk about as fillers in their conversations and once they run out of things to talk they may talk about you too .

 

How to overcome your insecurities ?

Overcoming your insecurities is the easiest part. It can only be done in 2 ways : either work to remove that insecurity or let yourself feel like a human despite your small imperfection.  Even though we try to work to remove our insecurities it doesn’t get removed in a day and takes some time .

During this time we need to learn  that :

 

 

“Even though our shortcomings are not our strong points, knowing where you are weak is your strength.”

 

 

For that you need to give time to yourself , understand where you are weak and where you are strong. It is OK to have lots and lots of weaknesses , we are humans only . When we know our weakness and we are OK with it only then we can go out and be our confident self .

 

To summarize I would like to say everyone has some or the other insecurity inside , if we don’t see in someone it’s because they hide it properly . I want you to do the same . Write whatever troubles you . When you open up to this diary about your insecurities you are opening yourself up to discuss it with your friends and family. Soon , you yourself will smile thinking about your short falls as they no longer will be your insecurities .

 

Hope you remove all insecurities from your life. Good Luck !

 

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